Journal Writing Day #7: Helps Develop Thoughts

I thought I really liked this thought about how journal writing can help us develop our thoughts.

“Thoughts are created in the act of writing. [It is a myth that] you must have something to say in order to write. Reality: You often need to write in order to have anything to say. Thought comes with writing, and writing may never come if it is postponed until we are satisfied that we have something to say. … The assertion of write first, see what you had to say later applies to all manifestations of written language, to letters … as well as to diaries and journals” (Frank Smith, “Myths of Writing,” Language Arts58, no. 7 [1981]: 793, 795)

It makes me think about what President Packer said about bearing a testimony- he said-
“Oh, if I could teach you this one principle. A testimony is to be found in the bearing of it! Somewhere in your quest for spiritual knowledge, there is that “leap of faith,” as the philosophers call it. It is the moment when you have gone to the edge of the light and stepped into the darkness to discover that the way is lighted ahead for just a footstep or two. “The spirit of man,” is as the scripture says, indeed “is the candle of the Lord.” (Prov. 20:27.)(http://lds.org/ensign/1983/01/the-candle-of-the-lord?lang=eng)

I think that journal writing does help us develop our innermost thoughts and feelings and helps us figure things out. I’ve made it a goal for the next 10 days to write more in my journal and make it more thoughtful rather than just writing the simple happenings of the day.

“The act of putting pen to paper encourages pause for thought, this in turn makes us think more deeply about life, which helps us regain our equilibrium.”  ~Norbet Platt

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Journal Writing Day #6: What to write about

Here are a few of the other things I write when I have a tough time thinking about what to write

Write down a quick description of what I did or accomplished during the day.
Write down what kind things others did for me.
Write down kind things I did for others.
Write all my thoughts for a specific amount of time- usually 5-10 minutes.
Write a letter to somebody that I don’t plan on sending.
Write down 1 thing I learned.
Write down one thing for which I am grateful.

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Journal Writing Day #5: Definition

Journal (noun):
a daily record, as of occurrences, experiences, or observations
(through French from Latin diurnalis, daily)

So does this mean by definition we don’t keep a journal if it isn’t done daily?

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Journal Writing Day #4: Journal Writing Quotes

“Writing is a way of talking without being interrupted.” - Jules Renard

“Journal writing is a voyage to the interior”- Christina Baldwin

“I write constantly, but only in my journals. I have three of them: one for travel, one for home, and one I write in before bed. But the last thing I want is other people reading it….. What’s really fun is reading your journal, like a year later,”- Cameron Diaz

“I find journal writing invaluable to me in preventing me blowing up at people in real life. Sometimes I prefer to call my journal my ‘rantlog’”- Michelle Linton

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Journal Writing Day #3: Ways to Write

How are you keeping a journal? I think we all have our individual ideas of the best way to keep a journal. Over the years I’ve tried several different ways to keep a journal. Here are a few of the ways I’ve tried: 

- Send an email to myself with “Journal and date” in subject that routes the email to a folder that I print off at end of year, and put in a binder.
- Print out all the emails that I’ve written for the year and put them in a binder.
- Writing in a paper bound pournal with my favorite pen.
- Little notebooks (the moleskin type)
- A blog

I’ve heard of others using Google Docs, others using an online service. What’s worked for you?

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Journal Writing Day #2: Why Write

A lot of us wonder why we should write in our journals if nobody is going to read them, or if we won’t ever let anybody read them. I just read a story about a lady that had her life supply of journals burnt in a fire. A friend commented that all her hard work had gone to waste, and she rebutted “The process we went through writing our journals can never be burned. Every hour we spent on those books helped to make us the people we have become.”

I found this talk on lds.org and it is definitely worth reading. It explains much better than I can many specific reasons why we should write in a journal. You can find the article here.
http://lds.org/ensign/1999/09/why-write-it?lang=eng

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Journal Writing Day #1: Just Write

Several hours of my life have been spent arguing the merits of just getting something done no matter how good the result versus the thinking that if anything worth doing is worth doing well. There are truths to both of these, but when it comes to journal writing I submit that just getting things done will produce more and better results than waiting until you have time to write a deep thought or a meaningful journal entry. The problem is: we don’t make time, and deep thoughts seldom come at the time we haven’t allotted.

One possible solution is to write everyday no matter how short or how stupid you think it is. Write what you did or didn’t accomplish, write one thing for which you are thankful, or something you learned. When we do this we establish the habit of writing and then when the thoughts and feelings come, we are already in the habit of writing.

As Michelle and I reviewed my 2010 journal we treasured some of the super simple and little things that she had ridiculed me for writing, like “Had a good day at work, really tired, goodnight journal”. And I admit that I just wrote them to say that I had written in my journal. The sheer number of entries provided for some good fun as a review and reminded me of so many things that happened and the timing in which they happened.

Write on!

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17 Day Challenge #1 – Journal Writing

We hear a lot of talks in church about writing in our journals, and I think most of us have it in the back of our minds as something we should do, but we still don’t write regularly and so we miss out on all the blessings that come from writing.

Throughout my life I have gone through spurts of journal writing. In 8th grade I made a pact with a friend and the 1st person to miss a day had to give the other a $.50 candy bar. I wrote for one year straight without missing a day, I can’t remember who won, or if he ever paid up, but I did learn that it is important to write every day. There is power in the consistency of writing every day, of being in the habit of writing something no matter how mundane and simple the entries seem. Even the little events after the passage of time, spark memories and help to piece together the puzzle of forgotten life.

Here is the challenge to anybody who wants to participate. Starting today, for 17 consecutive days write something, anything in your journal. Let me know if you are going to join me for this 17 day challenge. I’ll be posting some thoughts about journal writing.

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17 Day Challenges

Those of you who know me know I have a lot of ideas on how to improve my life.  Sometimes I am (or more often, my wife is) overwhelmed by the sheer number of brilliant ideas I come up with.  How can I possibly juggle it all?

Well, I was inspired with a great solution: one idea at a time, for 17 days.  (They say it takes 21 days to form a habit, but I like to think you only need 17 days to decide if it’s a habit worth developing.)  I think anyone can do just about anything for 17 days.  And, 17 happens to be my favorite number.  So here goes nothing, or hopefully something for 17 days.

Until my next BIG idea, I’m going to be picking various goals and working on them for 17 days at a time.  I think the best ideas may become habits, and the other ideas will just dwindle…

I’m hoping that by writing about these goals, some of you will want to participate as well.  (Who wouldn’t?)  I’ll be trying to write various  thoughts, brainstorming ideas, and status updates throughout the challenge, and I would LOVE any comments or ideas from my massive loyal following.  The more people, the more likely this is to continue for 17 whole days.

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Changing Diapers is Changing Me

This month has been a busy one. We had Liam. It is life changing, not so much as it changes who you are, or how you think, or what you desire, but it changes what you do, how you do it, when you do it, and with whom you do it. I love being a dad and I love Liam. I adore and love Michelle.

Today in Sunday school somebody made the comment that early on in their marriage they wanted recognition from the other person with regards to what they had done (we were discussing Jesus’ teachings in Matt 6:1). It hit me that if I was organized enough, I would have written down every diaper I have changed, and I probably average 3/day and I want Michelle to know when I changed the diaper, how messy it was, how fussy Liam was, while emphasizing how much I am doing. As I was thinking about comment, it hit me that I was as the hypocrites Jesus was teaching. I’ve got some changing to do (not just more diapers). Besides, Michelle probably changes 4 to 5 times the diapers I change and not once has she told me how many diapers she changed as I walk through the door after work. It is kind of funny that as I write this I am picturing a whiteboard above his changing station with how many diapers that we changed and who did it and a score of how messy it was. We’ll take a picture of those statistics every month and put it in Liam’s book of remembrance so he knows of the great sacrifices we made and when he dares complain we’ll demand a review of that book. Aaah, the joys of parenthood, the sleepless nights and the crap filled hands, the drooled on shirts, and the home bound nights (especially the dates that have to be creative enough to count as a date and not like every other night in the house together), the countless hours spent feeding, and rocking, and holding. The thankless nature of it all, must be quite refining. They don’t even remember, we have no concept of what our parents go through for the first year or two of our lives, no wonder why the sin of ingratitude is weighty. Thanks mom and dad for raising me and changing all my diapers, sorry I cried so much and that I didn’t sleep. Thanks for not killing me.

By the way, Liam is a great baby and has increased our joy infinitely, and the dirty diapers, the consistent crying, and discussed difficulties, are absolutely nothing compared to the joys of parenthood. I know that “the family is ordained of God.”

oh.. our almost daily thoughts on parenting can be found on another blog www.parentalponderings.posterous.com

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